Dating and such

So to be honest dating and finding true love is complicated on so many levels. There is no right or wrong way to do it. The key is to be you and not become lost and constrained in all the opinions of the time. This is a lesson i have learned all to well. I am of an older mindset in that you find a person that you like and you see how things go and if its the case you love them and are with them. this doesn't mean you are with them forever it could be a week or a month or, if you are truly blessed, your entire life. Now if that was hard enough as it where it works both ways you can be so lost in someone and they could care less about whether or not you have air to breath for the day. while some people find this to be obsessive I believe it is just one sided love.... that is until it become possessive then there are issues. best case in point are die hard fans that attend every show of an artist. They love that person or people to death and all is well until they try to control the person.
I digress the point is that without even considering appearance into all this your odds of finding a "perfect match are slim like 1/million......but on a lighter note there are like 8billion people in the world so your overall odds go up assuming you dont hate the Chinese. All joking aside to even find a date its like hitting the lottery the best part is that you get chances everyday you live =)

Free Pool

So I acquired a free pool the other day from my work that they where going to throw away. It is a massive blow up ring pool. This has led to a step forward in innovation that I have not had in a long time. the pool is 18 foot in diameter and approx 42 inches deep. It is enough to lounge in at any rate and easy enough for maintenance. The best parts are the ideas that come from it like putting my small 8ft row boat in it to act as a bar. Also taking the guts from flashlights and putting them into colored glass bottles and then throwing them in for extra lighting has turned this into a pretty neat affair that my friends and I have participated in. We are also considering finding an old water heater to attach to allow for year round swimming. The one thing that vexes me about owning a pool is that I never want to swim alone.

1st post

So this is going to become a repository for my thoughts on life and social structure that being said as the structure of social items and people not thoughts on government save this one....it is all symbiotically Fucked up. =)