So to be honest dating and finding true love is complicated on so many levels. There is no right or wrong way to do it. The key is to be you and not become lost and constrained in all the opinions of the time. This is a lesson i have learned all to well. I am of an older mindset in that you find a person that you like and you see how things go and if its the case you love them and are with them. this doesn't mean you are with them forever it could be a week or a month or, if you are truly blessed, your entire life. Now if that was hard enough as it where it works both ways you can be so lost in someone and they could care less about whether or not you have air to breath for the day. while some people find this to be obsessive I believe it is just one sided love.... that is until it become possessive then there are issues. best case in point are die hard fans that attend every show of an artist. They love that person or people to death and all is well until they try to control the person.
I digress the point is that without even considering appearance into all this your odds of finding a "perfect match are slim like 1/million......but on a lighter note there are like 8billion people in the world so your overall odds go up assuming you dont hate the Chinese. All joking aside to even find a date its like hitting the lottery the best part is that you get chances everyday you live =)
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